She Enlightens His Eyes and Stands Him on His Feet
The "Woman" is not a servant, a cook, or a sex object. She is the Light. She is the Torah. And if you don't honor her, you don't honor God.
“Why do men try to control women? Why do rabbis preach about ‘modesty’ instead of essence? Who truly knows what a Woman is?”
She Enlightens His Eyes and Stands Him on His Feet.
One of the most wondrous of wonders is that “A Male wants to control a Female.”
Males want to tell the Female how she is supposed to live.
Pay attention—how the “Male Majority” preaches about the “Feminine Subject.”
I understand one basic thing:
The Holy One, Blessed be He, chose the Woman to give birth.
He trusted her.
He created her in a way that she brings Life into the world.
Without a Female, there is no Life.
The Question of Essence
The status of the Woman from the dawn of history has not yet been established.
The question is: What is a Woman?
Who knows Woman?
Who knows that “The Woman” is the Evil, the Lie, the Soul (Nefesh), this World—and we must know her?
Only then do we receive Torah.
Only then do we reach the Holy One, Blessed be He.
“He Found a Wife, He Found Good”
Who is called “Good”? The Creator.
When he finds the Good (The Creator through the Woman), this is the Benefiting Good.
It is not written that the Man enlightens and stands the Woman on her feet.
It is written:
“She is found enlightening his eyes and standing him on his feet.” (Yevamot 63a)
A Man Without a Woman is Not a Human
As it is said: “Male and Female He created them and called their name Adam.”
Rabbi Elazar said: “Any man who has no wife is not a human being.”
The Meaning of “Helpmeet Against Him” (Ezer K’Negdo)
If he merited $\rightarrow$ She helps him (Ozeret).
If he did not merit $\rightarrow$ She is against him (K’Negdo).
Rabbi Yossi asked Elijah: “In what way does she help him?”
He answered: “A man brings wheat—does he chew wheat? Flax—does he wear flax? She enlightens his eyes and stands him on his feet.”
(Meaning: She turns the raw potential into actual life).
The Redemption of the Couple
My teacher used to say: “Redemption is when the Couplehood in the Universe is corrected.”
When Male and Female know how to couple correctly.
When they know the Torah.
The Woman IS the Torah of the Man.
The Great Corruption
In this generation, the greatest corruption is the corruption of relationships.
“He looked here and there, and there was no man.”
“Man” (Ish) is called the Creator.
The whole point of marriage is a Home for the Creator in the Lower Worlds.
When there is no peace in the home—there is no home.
When there is no Male and Female—there is no foundation for the world.
The Creator has nowhere to dwell.
The “Holiness” of Abuse
Look at how many homes are destroyed daily.
How many families shatter.
And yet, people bring children as if it’s a game.
They do not know Woman.
One tries to control the other.
Modesty (Tzniut) starts with saying “I don’t know.”
No Rabbi should speak about Women.
For if he knew her—would he speak?
If he knew her, he would weep.
He would not speak.
A Woman is Not a Servant
She is not a slave who makes Matbucha and fish and separates Challah.
And is covered from head to toe.
Just so the Man can eat seven meals and say: “I’m tired, going to sleep.”
This tiredness has already tired God Himself.
We lose the best of the best to mental fatigue and laziness.
The Danger of Disrespect
There is nothing more dangerous than not giving respect to a Woman.
The entire Torah stands on this.
Honor to the fact that She enlightens and stands you on your feet.
Would you speak Slander (Lashon Hara) about the one who makes you human?
“This is Gaza”
When there is no respect in the home—there is no Light.
It is not a home.
It is Gaza.
Terror, murder, war, and rape daily.
What the outside shows us—is what is happening in our homes.
The Woman Has a “Man”
The Woman belongs to God.
Whoever finds this unpleasant to hear—drink some water.
The Male needs to learn through the Woman how to reach his Soul—the Creator.
A Woman who has a “Man” (God):
Will not give you a discount.
She will take your soul out.
That is her nature.
No... The Creator will ensure it happens to you.
That is His nature.
Woman is Not a Plastic Doll
A woman is not a blonde, 1.90m, made of plastic.
And not—to distinguish—one who picks up your clothes all day because you are a donkey who makes no light.
No, souls. The movies are over.
The Creator has finished His part.
Loyalty to God is Learned from a Woman.
A Woman loves God.
Because He is The Man.
This is the definition of Woman.
Attached from the start.
To You, Beloved Soul:
Start by standing up in your existence.
First of all, know Who is your Man (God).
Ensure you respect yourself.
Do not fall at anyone’s feet.
Do not be impressed by speeches.
“By your deeds we shall know you.”
Until this day, “Everything fell on the Woman.”
The Crown of her Head fell.
She forgot, in this destroyed world, her status from Genesis.
“A Woman of Valor is the Crown of her Husband.”
Remember.
Memorize.
Do not compromise.
Your Honor is Within.
There is no competition here.
A Woman who knows who she is—Wins.
Reflect:
The Definition: Men, do you view your wife as a “Helper” (servant) or as the one who “Stands you on your feet”? The Zohar says without her, you are not human.
The “Tiredness”: Are you “too tired” to honor your wife? Ruth says this tiredness is a spiritual illness that destroys the world.
The Mirror: Look at the violence outside (Gaza/Terror). It is a reflection of the violence inside our homes. Peace starts in the living room.