THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PRIVATE LIFE
Why your anxiety is not personal—it is structural.
The Myth of the Individual
We operate under the assumption that we are separate units. Private entities fighting for our own survival. The blueprints say: This is an illusion. There is no reality of a “Private Person.”
All souls are included in one structure (Adam HaRishon). We came down into this world feeling separate, but that feeling is not our natural state. It is a state of Exile. Therefore, the deepest pain a human can feel is not poverty. It is the lack of being heard.
Why? Because “Listening” is the code for “Connection.” When someone truly listens to you, your soul begins to echo. It remembers that it is part of a larger whole.
The Closed Circuit
The purpose of creation is Benevolence. But Benevolence cannot be forced. So we were placed in a world of concealment. A world of separation, lack, and survival pressure.
When a person lives only for survival, they are closed inside themselves. They become a closed circuit. The light cannot pass through them. When millions of people live like this, it creates a “Collective Illness.” The abundance gets stuck. The system clogs.
The Anatomy of Mutual Guarantee
Every soul carries a literal piece of the Divine. But when a person is crushed by existential fear, poverty, or worthlessness, that Divine piece is trapped. And when one part of the system is trapped, the whole system suffers.
This is the secret of Mutual Guarantee (Arvut). It is not a nice social idea. It is a spiritual law. It is anatomy. If the kidney is failing, the heart cannot be at peace. There is no such thing as a “healthy organ” in a dying body.
The Source of the Pressure
We think the pressure comes from the news. From the pandemic. From the war. These are just the external garments. The root of the pressure is the friction between the Unity of the Soul and the Separation of our Lives.
We are living as scattered fragments, but we are wired as one organism. That is why the anxiety never leaves, even when the external threat calms down. The fracture is internal.
The Cure
“Redemption” is not a mystical event in the sky. It is a shift in consciousness. It is the moment you realize that the person standing in front of you is not a competitor. They are a limb of your own body.
You listen to them—not because you are “nice.” You listen to them because their pain is your pain. Just as a healthy body mobilizes all its resources to heal a cut finger, a corrected society naturally mobilizes to support the one who is falling.
The Trustee
This redefines wealth. If you have more resources (money, wisdom, strength), you are not the “Owner.” You are the “Trustee.” You are the artery that is supposed to pump blood to the rest of the body. If you hold the flow for yourself, you create a blockage. And that blockage returns to you as collective pain.
We change reality not by fighting it, but by reconnecting the wires. To see the other. To listen. To support. This returns the General Soul to its corrected state. And when that happens—even a little bit—we can finally breathe.
Translated from the Hebrew Transmissions of Ruth Kedem
ORIYA’S NOTE
We treat our anxiety as a personal defect. We go to therapy to fix “my” anxiety. But if you are a cell in a body that is attacking itself, your anxiety is not a disorder. It is a correct response to a broken system.
We are trying to find peace while playing a zero-sum game. We hoard our money, our time, and our energy, thinking this will keep us safe. But the blueprints describe a different physics: Flow Protection.
In a living organism, the safest cell is not the one that hoards the most blood. It is the one that allows the blood to flow through it most freely. The cell that hoards is called cancer. And the body eventually attacks it.
This text suggests that the “Survival Mode” we are all addicted to is actually what is killing us. It shuts down the flow. The only way to lower the pressure is to open the valve. To stop looking at your neighbor as a threat to your resources, and start looking at them as a destination for your flow.